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Mood says I'm loopy but I'm really in a "mood".  A WTF mood....thought I had a big fat blog going on but now I'm at a standstill...more later....

This is getting boring huh?

Alex is here this weekend and she suggested Jeff take her and Jax to the movies.  Jackson has never been to a movie at a theater. 

I'm still in my nightshirt straightening up the house - e.g. clearing out a bunch of stuff from Kate's drawers that no longer fits so her clothing isn't stuffed in and we can actually find socks in the morning.  I dressed her in a really cute pink cordouroy dress just because she's been wearing jeans and turtlenecks all week and I wanted to dress her up.  Now I have to figure out a place for us to go maybe.  It's almost her nap time so that buys me some time to take a shower, etc.

Tomorrow Jax and I will go to mass.  Our new church, Our Lady of Hope, opened last weekend.  I had stopped going weekly and when I restarted around Thanksgiving I began attending at the newer parish right up the road a piece vs. my old parish in the town we used to live in.  I stayed with the old one because I'd been active  as a lector, etc. prior to having the kids and this new parish didn't even form until a year or so after we moved here and I didn't know about it right away....they built a big church and a Catholic elementary school and started raising money for the church which was finished recently and dedicated on 1/17.  It's really a neat structure - they call it modern gothic - see drawing attached and here is the link to the parish website.   http://www.ourladyofhope.net/about.asp   I've been thinking I'd like Jackson to go to the school but haven't discussed with Jeff yet.  First thing's first - I haven't even registered in the parish yet.  

Sounds like a typical weekend for me - I don't have a big plan.  We usually spend the weekend trying to get the house tidied up from the busy week. grocery shopping, etc. before starting back into the grind all over again.   I need to get up to see my mom - the weekend I had was all set to go turned out to be when my friend's Stephen's memorial service was held and I felt like I needed to go to that. 

Sunday Again

It's nearly nine and time to get ready for Mass.  Jackson and I will be going to the new church for the first time this morning.  The dedication was Thursday and now that the bishop has sprinkled the walls with holy water, and incense has been burned throughout, it's time to go there vs. the SRO high school auditorium.  Yeah!

I'm sitting here with my coffee, in the clothes I wore yesterday and then slept in.  Jackson, who took a long nap (all afternoon) did not want to go to bed last night so after listening to him wail for 30 minutes or so came up to lie down with him and fell asleep.  It was one of those nights where I woke up throughout and thought about getting into my own bed - ah, the cool, smooth sateen sheets - but instead slept with Batman. 

We've just finished our breakfast of oatmeal and fresh strawberries.  Jeff and little lady will be staying home and Jax and I will embark on the Sunday routine of Mass then to Wegman's for groceries.

Peaceful Sunday - Am I in the Wrong House?

Work is as busy as ever but my new recruiting coordinator started last week and suddenly I feel like I can breathe.  The person who referred her is a close friend of hers who used to do the same job so the friend came down from Philly to train Danielle all day Wednesday - suddenly I'm getting really lucky.   Since I'm over my bronchitis and whatever else from over the holidays I feel loads better and got a ton of work done yesterday, am doing some today, and tomorrow is a holiday for us but I'll be working some tomorrow as well while toasting MLK and his contributions to our society.  Last year at this time I was headed into the delivery room with my friend Stacey who had her son Ben on MLK's bday.   My ankle biters are doing well.  It's been a relaxing weekend believe it or not.  Jackson and I attempted Mass this a.m. but is was SRO in the hall of the high school auditorium so I might as well not have been there but we stuck it out then went grocery shopping.    It's sunny here but bitter cold and windy.  

Fa La La La La

I have been sick as a dog - going into week #3 with bronchitis and a pain in the back of my head that makes me nauseous.  I went back to the dr. and he said the pain is most likely muscular and stress-related.  I guess so when I'm so freakin' busy at work - behind the veritable 8-Ball, have Christmas and houseguests looming, Jackson's birthday which I want to make special even though it's in the midst of holiday preparations, kitchen floor running behind schedule, granite installation having to be pushed back, new kitchen table coming next Friday but chairs some time in Jan.  And the house if a filthy mess with dust from the tiling everywhere you turn.  I can't wait to have my kitchen and family room furniture back where it belongs so that my bedroom is no longer the breakfast nook and romper room all rolled into one....The bronchitis is just about cleared up although I had a coughing fit today and I'm taking some high test cough medicine with codiene in it and two different painkillers - one for day time and one for at night.  The daytime one barely took the edge off the pain today.  How am I supposed to recruit when I'm in this state?  I'm in really good shape as far as Christmas shopping some how.  My packages to send to Aunt Dee & Uncle Ed, my mom, and Julie are ready to go to the post office and since Annette & Jeff are coming here there is no need to mail their gifts - but they're wrapped and ready just the same.  I'd still love to get something for Billy & Stephen and mail it off to my Mom's for them but that's a separate shopping trip.  I did the official toy buying today at Target.  Jackson doesn't know yet to ask for everything under the sun and of course Kate doesn't.  Alex's list consisted of primarily movies.  I got her quite a few nice gifts - mainly three outfits, several books, a necklace, pj's, etc.  and one game. 

I may hit the Godiva store to buy gifts for the special folks around the office who make my life so much easier.  I know I'm not baking several batches of cookies to give away this year.  I'll be lucky if I get the pierogis made but maybe the Friday or Saturday before Christmas.  I'm not in the mood to write Christmas cards, partially because I don't have a really cool pic of the kids to send this year.  We'll see what happens, I still have time. 

Remodeling Woes

 Our new kitchen tile is positively gorgeous and so is the granite for the countertop.  There are 3-4 days of work left to do on the floor and that part of the downstairs is a wreck.  We are upstairs with the kids thinking about all of the things we need to do before Christmas.  I'm thinking a list is in order at this time.  The kitchen table we picked out is out of stock until January so we're going to hunt for an alternate today.  I'd love to have the floor, counters, and the new table before Jeff & Annette come in two weeks but it's looking doubtful on the table part. 

I had the brilliant idea of taking Jackson and a few buddies from school to see Disney on Ice for his birthday...and it's definitely running now.  It's not running in Washington at the moment though.  Oops, back to the drawing board to find an activity that will be cool for a birthday celebration.  We don't do the Chuck E. Cheese's deal.  He is scared of the mouse and the mayhem makes me nutso. 

I'm hoping that now that I'm on the antibiotic my bronchitis will clear up quickly.  I haven't been so sick in a long time and with so much to do - work and home and then there's preparing for Christmas.  I'm wondering when we'll make the pierogi - we have to make them again - they're fabulous, and despite my intentions to make them at least twice per year we only manage to make them for Christmas and freeze several dozen to enjoy for a few months after. 

Must get to the list.

First Sunday of Advent

Having children definitely makes a difference.  I'm thinking that's why I've got Christmas spirit already and I know it's also because I've been to Mass three weeks in a row now.  I'm not sure how long this hiatus has been but I broke it by going to the new parish right up the street.  Mass is held at the high school but the actual church is scheduled to be ready by Christmas.  How exciting - it's a beauty from the outside.  Jackson has gone with me the last two weeks and I am really into having him attend with me.  Today we brought home the advent wreath I'd ordered a few weeks ago and installed it on the dining room table.  Must go look up the Advent prayers to say when we light it.  Growing up we never did this in the home but I really like the idea. 

Thanksgiving was a blast - the meal turned out to be excellent with the exception of my mashed potatoes.  Having the Russin's, their kids, and the Levy's here felt right - just like family.  The topper of the evening was Kate warming up to Stacey's dad and us teaching her to call him Poppa Don.  So very cute. 

In addition to Jackson's birthday in a couple of weeks we have Annette & Jeff's visit to look forward to the weekend before Christmas.  My plan is to have their gifts wrapped and ready when they get here and also have the tree up - either decorated already or with lights only so we can all do it together over the weekend.

For Jackson's birthday, with the help of an idea from a friend, I suggested that rather than a house party we take him and invite a few friendsto see Disney on Ice.  I'm going to ask the mom's this week, buy the tickets now, and hopefully go shortly after the New Year.  Jackson is definitely not a Chuck E. Cheese's kid and neither am I!!  So rather than being slighted by having a birthday close to Christmas, Jackson will have the cupcakes at school, a cake and gifts at home with family, and a special outing with friends to look forward to. 

Both kids are so much fun right now.  Jackson being potty trained has made life easier and so has Kate walking and feeding herself fairly well.  She's starting to really parrot every word she hears and can follow simple directions like "please put this in Alex's room".  Very exciting and rewarding to watch them grow and learn new things.  Jackson's "big" gift this Christmas is a RoboRaptor - remote control dinosaur skeleton looking thing.  I hope he's as pleased with it as he is excited to get it.  It's already bought and safely tucked away in the garage until I start with my gift wrapping - which will happen shortly - possibly even this week.  Which reminds me, I need to locate the Christmas cards I stashed away last year.

I think the big key to the holiday excitement for me this year is Jackson being old enough to start teaching about the fact that Christmas is really fundamentally about Jesus' birthday and taking him to Mass with me.  Knowing Kate is old enough now to really get excited when she opensher gifts, having a houseful of people here for Thanksgiving, the pre-Christmas visit with Annette & Jeff - and maybe the underlying new level of peace I've achieved about the rift with my sister and the fact that my family loves both of us and is stuck in the middle - It's all adding up to make me feel that this is and will continue to be a very meaningful holiday season.

And I thank God for that!!